FAULT BEING SINGULAR

Salam.. Memandangkan my friend Suki has written about what people have said to those still being single, I suddenly feel the urge to write something that has been said to us (kengkawan in the same subset).

Ada satu ketika when I did some gotong royong in the hot sun with friends (proses pemindahan ke tmpt kerja bru).. ada one guy friend said.. "Ksian, panas dan itam la awak orang nnti". I replied "takpe, dh biasa". Tak semena-mena one married Pempuan friend said, "eh, kita takpe, dah kawin, orang yang bujang la kesian..gelap kang, turun plak saham. (owh..kita wat ksimpulan, married ones tak main saham).

Ada plak statement dari org yg sama ni..time berbual2, waiting for a presentation.
Bachelor 1: Aku ingat susah la nk smbung PhD ni.. Tak daya rasanya.
Married Pmpuan: Ho yelah.. Aku rasa, kalau ko sambung, tak kawin2 la ko rasanya..
Me: What the heck? (dlm ati)

Situation lain:
Married Pmpuan : Eh, dia tu bila nk kawin eh? Suh la dia kawin cpt2..
Bachelor 1 yg tadi: Ntoh la, aku pun tak tau.
Married Pmpuan : Kata ke dia, duit dh banyok..mende lagi dia nk tnggu...
Me: (Kesimpulannya, duit banyak = kene kawin) hihihi..patutlaaa still singular

Tak kira ke mana jua.. mmg byk la statement2 yg menunjukkan kehebatan orang bujang nih keluar dr mulut rakyat2 yg tak berapa nk sensitif pada isu2 lain. (statement yg ala2 perli jugak tu kott)

cth: Awak takpelah.. boleh la pegi (wat keje2 luar/kursus etc).. Takdok anak kecik. (huh! pdhal ramai lagi org beranak pinak p jugak, terkejor2 pun p jugak..) owh..lupa..I have no social life kan?

cth: Alah, sukan ni pun awak je la main. Kita2 ni dh jadi mak orang (pdhal ramai je mak2 orang yg bersokan sama) Kesimpulan= org bujang memang takde pnyakit/halangan dlm bersukan. Bersyukur je lah.

Agak pelik sbb conclusion yg dibuat ialah this particular people akan memusingkan apa2 jua situation to marriage, being married and anything related to being unmarried. I am so thankful I befriended those yang tak akan memutar2 pada hal yg sama ni sahaja, although they are married. It's not the only thing we think of after all..